We do not hear much about AIDS nowadays, except in relation to the huge amount of people suffering from it in Africa. But, it is a reality in all countries, and people whose relations or partners have died from AIDS related diseases suffer particular grief responses. Since AIDS is transmitted through bodily fluids sexual partners may be anxious about their own health, and may confuse some of the physical sensations or illnesses associated with bereavement with those stemming from AIDS. This can greatly add to their anxiety.
Survivors may also conceal the real reason for death because of the social stigma that seems to be associated with this disease. This deception can lead to anxiety, anger, and guilt. There is also the question of the lack of social support, and the exclusion of a gay lover from the family grieving process. Because AIDS is essentially associated with the gay community, AIDS-related deaths may heavily impact upon individual members of that community, who are often faced with multiple losses.
Tags: bereavement, grief