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I did not realise that my child would die withing half an hour

Saturday, March 19th, 2011

I never noticed his mangled bicycle, or the deep dent in the

roof of the car, which struck him as he emerged from a side

road. I wasn’t in shock, but felt helpless. The sister of the

driver of the car asked to use the phone to contact their

parents, and I felt a surge of rage at this for no apparent

reason. My main concern was to see that Cathal was kept

warm, so we got a blanket and covered him until the

ambulance arrived. I examined the face of the nurse, who was

our neighbour, for reassurance, but could see none. Still the

incomprehensible had not registered with me. Mary and I

followed the ambulance to the hospital in Cashel. I had

changed my VHI policy some time earlier, and was unsure of

Cathal’s cover. I worried that I would be presented with a

large bill for his stay in hospital, and hoped it would only be

for a few days.